why listening is more important than talking
Be a listening ear for someone. Some will be the same for you. Our world doesn't have many ears who are ready to listen to us . It's one of the reasons why Listening is more important than talking.
People around us usually avoid paying attention to any thought. They often say to their friends or well known persons, 'if you have any problem you can share with us'.
But somehow ground reality is quite Different.
They say this, but do they really do it? In some way the answer is 'NO'.
Problem occurs from another side too. Like the way people are not ready to pay attention to others in the same way there are many people who don't want to express themselves. Either they don't know how to express themselves or they don't want to define their thoughts in front of others. They might be thinking that their problem has no solution, others can't do anything with their problem, some think that their problem will get a solution if they don't share with anyone, some also think that they will solve Their problem on their own.
Well it's good if you are capable of fighting your own battle alone,but if anyhow, anywhere you think like things are not working, just go for help. There is always a helping hand.
Life is so unpredictable, you never know what happened next. So please be kind to the people who need your compassion and love. If you see any person who is struggling with emotions or any serious problems which definitely needs better treatment.you should help them, at least you can ask them.
Importance of listening-
On average we used our 60-70% time in listening. But we usually don't get our full attention on each talk. Better communication skills demand excellent listening habits. If you want to be the best communicator among all,you have to be a good listener.
Listening makes us aware, more attentive,more productive.
Good listener also makes you an excellent student. Let's take an example: imagine yourself as a college student. When you are pursuing a college degree,where your professor can't help you in making notes,they describe the topics widely that time. If you are not a good listener you can't catch their words easily.you will forget their words sooner or later. Because you were not a good listener so you didn't get their points right.
Listen to your inner soul -
People often say that your inner soul's voice is the voice of the creator. This might be the reason why you have to listen to your inner thoughts. Sometimes your inner calling plays a tangled game with you. in that specific situation you might feel puzzled. It happens and it's very natural you don't have to worry much about it.
We have to build an understanding and it's really important. You can't understand others feelings and emotions unless you have a better understanding of your emotions and feelings.
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