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Why attachment is always better than non attachment
Everyone has Attachments. Why is attachment always better than non attachment? Is the attachment we have in our life good or bad? Attachment can be always good for us if we allow ourselves to get attached in a good way then these attachments will never hurt us.
what you understand by attachment. -
If somebody insults you and keeps insulting you. what will you do ?
You might not talk to them again. It's also possible that you insult them too.
Bigger question is this.
Can we be respectful to them?
Can we talk to them lovingly?
Perhaps, we will not.
These people are behaving in their own way. We should behave in our own way. They people will behave us as they are
What is stopping us? Our EGO.
Our Ego asks us for what reason are you keen on being so ideal to individuals who are not the equivalent to you. Our Ego as well as the individuals around you additionally tell the equivalent.
They will say in the event that you are so pleasant, at that point someone else will exploit. On the off chance that you are so acceptable to the individuals they will underestimate you.
Ego clashes is a two way process. Whenever ego takes place between any relationship whether it's your family, friend or loving partner. Ego ruins everything.
Maybe this is possible like you are taking your ego with yourself in the same way they are having their ego.
When I talk with people they usually say that having an attachment is a prominent reason for getting hurt.
You know the wrong definition of attachment. 'i replied'.
Reason of getting hurt is not your attachments but your understanding. People say being attached with someone invites lots of pain. hurting takes place in the heart.
Tell me one thing, How will life be without attachment. Will it be worth living or not ?
No it will not. Not having attachments is a sign of an emotionless person.
We should correct our definition of attachment.
What should be the idol definition of attachment -
Whenever we make friends, whenever we fall in love. attachment is always there.
Without attachment relationships are impossible. When we serve a healthy relationship in any relation. It gives us so much happiness, satisfaction, and love.
When does it hurt ?
When we love someone with all heart. Their happiness makes us happy, their sadness makes us sad, their pain gives us pain too.
Right ?
Do you also follow the same ritual as mentioned above?
If yes. Then you are in the wrong way.
Build attachment in that way where you are not affected or fluctuated by others behaviour or action.
Where people around you are not controlling your Emotional senses.
What are the benefits of building that attachment -
In my blogs I always talk about the things which helps you to grow. If I am saying building that good type of attachment will give you tidy results, it will.
Let me illustrate that point for you.
Imagine you are having someone who is very dear to you. And that person is having some troubles in life, these troubles can be emotionally, physically, economically any one of those.
If that person comes to you for asking for some help and if you are the person whose moods depend upon that person's behaviour or action. Then you will become more worried than that someone.
Why do you become worried? Because your moods and senses depend on their actions,if they are in trouble they are worried you will become worried for them automatically.
and in that scenario you can't help them, you will create more troubles for them. In that situation they are depressed already and you will help them to become more depressed. If anyhow they become more depressed with you or have some more troubles with you, they will never go back to you, if they have any kind of worries or troubles in future. And next time when you will ask them. All good ? They will simply say, 'Yes'.
You know what. Sometimes people don't express themselves by fear of being judged. They think, "I got judged by that particular person and this may be harmful for my image or my relationship with that person."
Have you ever thought about why mental health counselors or psychiatrists are helpful?
Because we didn't have any untidy attachment with them. So we feel free with them while sharing our untold desires and thoughts.
Good attachment varies by situations and circumstances.
How can you adopt good attachments-
Build a healthy relationship with everyone. Be strong. This world is so busy feeding the ego. Hardly people care about each other. So don't let disappoint you.
If they know that, know matter what the person like you will never Get devastated, this person remains strong and firm.
From that moment people will never take you for granted and you will also get less disappointed by people you admired.
"This will count as your greatest achievement"
That day when the world underestimates you. individuals slight you, get out of hand with you however you are not influenced by their act that is your accomplishment.
On the off chance that individuals underestimating you compliment yourself you accomplished something since you are not reliant upon others. simply don't resemble them. Simply don't down yourself on their level. Because you are you and they are they. You are unique, you have your own control in your life related stuff, you don't have to ask them to make you happy. Be a better version of yourself.
That is an accomplishment. That is an achievement. Our life in our control. This is your capacity, this is your power, this is your success.
In the event that you have power on your ownself you can transmit it to other people.
Try to take things positively, think positive, stay positive.
Also read things that makes you a happy human beingAttachment is not our enemy. They are our friends. In this article I explained Why is attachment always better than non attachment? I hope you are getting all the understanding by this blog as I mentioned above. Just adop good kinds of attachments to get a happy life. A life which will be less hurtful to you.
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