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How to master self control to get happy life

Self control is a basic need today and one should have to be a master of self control to get a happy life.

Whatever you are doing,what you want to do. just give your hundred percent.

Generally people are so lazy when they have ample time for something. Like students and aspirants seem so relaxed in their off days Or when their exam time is far from them. They become an active human when time comes near to them.

When their exam time comes. And that time they become frustrated because there is so much to read or learn but they don't have time to cover all the topics.

In result some of them compromise with their grades in school and colleges and some of the aspirants compromise with their job and ease of life.

Whenever we decided to do something that we actually need but that is so hard to do in straight hours.

Our mind simply convinces us to avoid these commitments to make it happen.

For example if we want to wake up early, we usually fix alarms for it.

But when that alarm rang in the early morning and we opened our eyes, our minds pressed the snooze button and told us to sleep more. 

Then what do we do? We simply turn off that Alarm for sleeping more.

Similarly some students who are addicted to social media or something else more than studies also follow the same scenario. Whenever they sit with their books and notes, obviously having a smartphone also with them.

What do they do when they sit to study, they study for a while then after that the idea comes in their mind that let's see what is going on in social media.

And in that moment, they stop studying and start scrolling social media feeds, they like, they comment, they also reply to some of the dms there.

And successfully waste their precious time there.

They went there for five or ten minutes, but in reality they waste their one or two hours or sometimes half hours on these unnecessary things.

Why is this happening? This has happened because while working on our projects we went on that platform without any purpose. Using social media is really good. I am also an active social media user.

But we have to build a little control on ourselves so that we can avoid these things while we're working on our projects.

What we can do build a self control in life -

Make a commitment to yourself that you are going to have a healthy diet, early morning walk and exercise, study in a proper schedule, what you want to do, first you have to make a commitment to yourself.

Whenever we do something whether it's good or bad. Before proper execution of that work. a voice comes to mind that tells us what is right for us and what is wrong for us.

As I told you in the above example about Early waking habits, that's time also two types of voices come to mind one of them tells us to sleep extra minutes, Nothing gonna happen if you do so and the other one tells us to leave the bed and go to work.

Both are different voices one shows the Positive outlook and another one shows negative. We have to pick the right one in order to build self control in life. 

By picking the right choice at the right time we can build self control in life.

And all these continuous processes make us different from all. Make us a successful and self controlled man.

can self controlled taught and learned -

Yes, it can be taught and learned. As you know distractions are all around us which attracts our attention in every hour.

We need to change the behaviour to get the things that we need and what we really want.

Things will fall in their own way Step by step.

You can learn it by yourself. By your own efforts.

Just follow a few steps. First you have to discover your passion, decide your goals and purpose then try to work on it. Make a proper blueprint of success.

A plan on which you are going to work. And follow it.

Whenever distraction comes to mind and starts imposing their will on yourself. Just give yourself a moment to remind yourself why you're doing it, what is your plan.

How can success come in your path. What would happen if you would not be a successful person? You will get your answer and in that moment you will stop wasting your time and will start working for a right cause.

How self control can be achieved -

Yup, by building or mastering habits we can achieve it. we all are having a Temendrious capacity inside us. If you want to use your full capacity and full energy you have to build self control in life. You have to be a self controlled person.

Tandem efforts make it possible. When any habit builds it does not build In just one or two days it's demands continue processes.

We humans adopt bad habits so quickly but when it comes to adopting any good habits we become less active or lazy for it.

Stop giving excuses to yourself for not completing any task. Don't give reasons for failures to yourself.

If anyhow you didn't get your desirable dreams and success.these things will fill you from guilt and sadness. And that guilt of failures is so Heavy to handle.

You can't sustain that pain of failure easily.

So please don't try any excuses in life again and again. Just do it if it is necessary in life to achieve success.

How self control helps you -

Well it's just a matter of Common sense. We are all already aware of the fact that self control is important in life and how it can help so it's not new if I told you about it. But on the other hand we know that common sense is not very common.

We humans know every good and bad habits but also have a habit of inconsistency and forgetting so I am always here to remind you of these things again and again.

Self control helps you to achieve success in life, doesn't matter if you have any talent and even a support system which gives compliments to your talent.

If you are not having an ability of self control and self discipline your talent is nothing but a waste.

If you are away from self control in life you can't get the life you really want because self control is important to get a happy life. If you will not control your life someone else will, if someone else will then your life will not be yours, it becomes a kind of employee of someone else who is handling your life. And it's very common they will handle it in their way. So please be your own captain in the test of life. Master self control in life. Hope this article named how to master self control to get a happy life will help you.

Dear readers I hope one day you will find your purpose of living a happy life. All the best. 

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