why dealing with change is easy than you think
Dealing with change, this is for everyone who is following a similar path. Path of change.
The world around us is constantly changing. We are going to wrap up this year. And this year grants all of us a different experience. First the world was clamped down by the hands of pandemic. Ever since then, we faced a lot of happy and sad moments. And that Moments brought us many changes.
If we don't talk about this year. In general, changes can happen anytime and anyplace.
We find difficulties to accept these changes in the first place. But at the end of the line they are beyond beautiful.
These changes happen inside and outside as well. When things change outside the world, they affect our inner side too.
We humans are having a good sense of making an understanding of the situations.
See first of all you have to understand that changes are very normal, it will happen sooner or later. Nobody is far from the fact that - change is the law of nature.
Then why we are so negative about all that.
Trust me. One day all your worries will fly far from you. One day all your Sorrow will convert into lifetime happiness. One day all your struggles will bring you desirable outcomes.
You will bring that day for yourself. I believe in you and you have to keep believing in yourself.
How to deal with it-
Changing in mindset is the first step to accept the change. It also depends on our no thinking capacity and how we see things when they change.
Outsider changes are not in your hand, you have zero control on the outside world, and also in someone which is not you.
But your Inner self is in your hand. You can deal with it according to your intent.
Have you ever thought about that? You used to be more happy than today, you used to feel angry and tense occasionally.
But now everything has changed. And we humans are complaining about that like our past was so good, everything was fine at that moment.
We should ask the question, Why did this happen to us?
The answer is - all this happened to us because we didn't care for ourselves. When all these things were happening to us, we didn't pay attention to ourselves.
We kept busy ourselves on putting things in the right direction or the right place. What I want to say is we were putting efforts outside the world.
From that day to now we adopt major changes in ourselves too, our emotions get fluctuations and these fluctuations become a part of our life. And we started living with it and claimed all of them as our natural behaviour or our attitude.
When outside changes affect our Inner self, we get a change. Because we got a change that's why we started missing old us.
When all these things were happening around us we were not ready to accept that, that behaviour formed a new us.
You know what was the problem? The problem was that we forget the simple phenomena that our inner create outer.
Also, read - things you should love about yourself and why
If undesirable changes happens -
Everyone who is Struggling with these changes in life. Everyone who is finding difficulties to fit themselves in the new environment.
If you are feeling stressed and pressured, I want you to take a deep breath. It feels a little comfortable.
Sometimes people tell me that you are changed. You are not the person you wont to be.
Yes, this is true. I got some changes. But there is also another truth which says they also got changed. They didn't accept these changes in the right way.
Let's take an example - assume that person A is in a relationship with person B. And it's a very perfect relationship. Everything is going good and according to their intent. If sudden changes occur at some point of their relationship, they make rift and choose to go on a different way. It hurts right. It brokes us and our hearts into thousand pieces.
You know why that took place. Because when changes occur in relationships, we take all these in the wrong direction. The point is, your choice towards the change is also important and plays the major role in life.
Your choice towards change, in what direction you want to take it. It's in your hand. Only you have full control of yourself. You are a maker. You have to choose what is in your best for yourself.
I know sometimes changes without your intent and it obviously hurts. Dealing with change seems difficult to handle. I know it brings us down when we ache for help and we don't get it. But you have to keep remembering to never fluctuate yourself because of others.
You have a power to make yourself better. Use your power. Don't waste it.
Doesn't matter how difficult it seems. Don't think that your pain will never fade.
It may take a little longer but there is an end. End of every hard situation. One day everything will be fine. One day you will have a successful life. One day you will fall in love again. You will find your inner peace soon. One day you will never feel in the same way as you used to do.
When that day comes you will gaze yourself in the mirror and will say that, you made it. while making eye contact.
Someday you will be okay, trust me. And you will heal again. You are doing such a good job. everything is going to work out.
Till then love every price of yourself.
Changes are messi in the beginning. You may not see it today or tomorrow, but you will look back in a couple of years. You but you'll reminisce during a few were happening for a good. Maybe you will find yourself in a more magnificent position than before.
a place where you always wanted to be. You will be grateful for those changes at the moment.
Whenever we passed all the difficulties with all grace and strength. We formed a new version of ourselves.
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