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HOW TO DEAL WITH FAILURE

Today in this post I am going to cover about how to deal with failure which we had in ever life. 

The article content-

1. How to deal with failure
2. How to deal failure in life
3. How to deal with failure in exam
4. How to handle love failure
5. What you can learn from failure

'Failure' is one of the most scary words. When we look at the people around us we see many people who failed at least once in their life. It's not like that you can only fail in exams. There are various types of failure which we had in our life. Like failure in love, failure in mentoring someone, failure in parenting, failure in your well defined goals, failure in getting a desired job etc

Our society takes failure in a negative way . We also take failure as The end of our purpose of life because We are also part of society. right?

We always forget the small things - 'ending is a new beginning'

Isn't it? 

We have a short life and in this short life we faced many uninvited difficulties and adverse circumstances.

When something bad happens to us where we lost our all hopes, when things are ready to bring us down when we get failure in life. We take it at heart. It's human nature. Our brain takes rejection and failure in a unique way. We are having a habit of looking down on people who fail at something. 

Take an example to see what are the parameters of success and failure -

If you are in a government job/ respected job at a high post, you are the star of the family and you are very respected in the eyes of your neighborhood and relatives. 

And we can say you have to be a successful engineer or doctor anything which can give you respected field. 

You have to be a respected and well employed person in the eyes of your relatives then only you are a successful person, in this scenario you are a less failed person too. That's how our society works. 

If you are fit in their parameters and hopes they stated you as the best human being among all. Ironically they themselves made these parameters. 

Here the question arises, is that failure only meant for employment and being a rich person? 

No.

Our vicinity gives us unnecessary stress ,tension and negative vibes. aftermath, we become depressed. Here are some tips for you which may helpful to you. 

How to deal with failure- 

the best way to deal with failure, try to overcome it is to stop fearing from failure. One fundamental of success is failure. failure connects you to success.The more you failed the more you Succeed. Every failure took you to the one step closer to your success. 

Then why do we have to fear failure? 

When we can take failures in a positive way there is no need to be fear. 

Stop fearing from failure, stop thinking like that, what if I failed? Just think ' if I failed in this way either I will try again with extra efforts or I will made a new way for myself' 

The one thing that I never stop is, 'trying' I will never stop trying, 'I will never give up'. 

Keep these words in your mind, well it's better to say just lock these words in your mind and feel the magic. 

How to deal with failure in exams- 

 many young people faced such situations where they tried hard but failed. A failure in an exam brings us down from being not selected in a desired job related exam, reputed university, college. 

Here you have only two choices - either try so hard that everything becomes so easy to you or try to search for your satisfaction in another workplace. 

Find your true direction, you will get a good life. 

How to deal with failure in life- 

when it comes to failure in life. There are many things which can be included. 

Have you ever imagined your Life after failure?It can be beautiful only if you never stop trying, you never stop learning. 

I am saying with experience when failure hits you. you will become helpless and hopeless But that is the right opportunity to show your action.

How to handle love failure-

ove failure, one of the most abrasive things in our life. When we had unsuccessful love or relationship in our life.

We usually lost our faith in love. People scared to fall in love again, the fear of being alone, the fear of breakup gives us bristle feelings when we are going through these emotions. 

To handle love failure you must forget these fears. Believe In the process, love can happen twice. You can love again with the better person. Forget the person who can't be yours, stop investing yourself in them. They can't be yours, maybe they have their reason for not choosing you. 

You can't force someone to love you, to stay with you. Let them go. 

Keep your dignity in yourself, invest in yourself, love yourself. Right one is waiting for you. 

What you can learn from failure - 

Failure grants you much learning to lead a life in a well mannered way. When failure blocks your ways , when failure drown you into the world of sadness and dissatisfaction. Remember that failure gives access to eliminate the wrong option. 

Try to Read between the lines. When you have Many options it is very confusing to choose the right one. When we fail at one option it gets eliminated automatically. Now you can go through with another option. So it's a positive form of failure. 

Failure makes us strong. It ossify us. Having a failure can also be a plus point in your life. After having these deep and dark days you will become more attentive, more careful to your choices and actions, more conscious in your relationships, more efficient in your workplace. 

It completely changes you into a new person. 

Stop taking failure at your heart, stop thinking it's end if you got failed in any particular manner. Keep the learnings else get leave. 

Never forget every next day being a new opportunity. Grab it, make everyday count. 

After passing that failure episode, when you are so far from those days. You look back and you will realise that all those failures, deep and dark days were just a small chapter of your life. They will look like a dot in the long paragraph. 

Don't take too much stress of success and failure. Just give your best. You can only perform 'work'. Result is not in your hand. 

Your best will keep motivating you,will keep making you successful. 

ALSO READ how to be positive in hard times

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