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Ten Best Proven Ways To Be Kind To Yourself
Suppose if your friend needs your help. What will you do? You will show compassion to your friend. Then why do we say no to These things for ourselves?
We did countless things for our family without any second thought. We help others when they need us. But when it comes to us. We criticize ourselves.
If I ask you, what you want in your life. Your answer might be happiness and peace etc. Well, that's great.
The irony is people need this stuff in life by the source of others. There are very few people who know what self-love is.
And some so many people are not kind to themselves. Who isn't taking care of themselves?
We can see those examples in our surroundings. When you will search for those kinda elements. You will get enough.
If you are thinking like that only you have problems in life. Only you are struggling. Then You are wrong.
Each of us is a little broken. Every one of us is struggling for something or someone. Or we can say every one of us is seeking something in life.
You are not alone on this path.
I saw people love to cry about their problems. Crying is good. But sticking with any particular problem is not good. Instead of crying all day, you have to work for a solution.
When it's all related to your mental peace. In this condition, you have to take the First step for yourself. Make a will that you will take care of yourself. You will support yourself. You will be kind to yourself.
As you know, I am always here to bring positivity and motivation to your life. so I am sharing some best and proven ways. Where you will get to know how to be kind to yourself. Give a read.
Call your old friend-
Calling an old friend and having a chat with them. It works like Therapy. You know what when we were going through our childhood days.
We may not realize that we are living our golden time. We realize it when it all comes to end. At the time of early adulthood.
Well, it's not our fault at all. We got some experiences after living with them.
On the farewell day of our school or college. We promised each other that we will remain in touch. But how many remain in touch? Maybe two or three and sometimes zero.
When we were so busy achieving our goals. We left so many people behind. I am saying again it's not our fault. It's a part of the process. If we want something desperately in life.
We have to pay a price for it. But when time plays its part. And give us a chance to meet with those old friends again.
We shouldn't leave it. You know what. No matter how many friends you have on digital platforms.
But your friends in real life grants you a different feeling. In my opinion, you have one real-life friend at least.
Meeting and having conversations with your old friend will provide you a soothing effect. You will feel happy and worthy.
Give compliment yourself-
Giving compliments to yourself is a beneficial task for you. Do good and compliment yourself. In every win, in every little achievement. Do it for yourself.
Compliment when you pass with good marks. When you are helping others. When you silently care for someone.
When you provide hidden help to a needy person. When you cook good food. When you accomplish a given task.
When you love someone selflessly. When you share someone's sorrow. When you settle someone's hunger. do compliment yourself. All this stuff deserves appreciation.
Clap for yourself. Make yourself confident. Never stop doing good. Don't care If no one is there to appreciate you. You are there for yourself. Every time.
Compliment yourself on every good trait of yourself. Chill with yourself. You know what you are. You don't need a single validation from any person around you.
Help others and yourself as well -
We, humans, love to help others. It makes us happy. We all are quite good at helping others. That makes us have pleasure and fulfillment.
You might not help yourself financially every time. But you can help yourself emotionally in each situation.
You have a good heart. When you see a person who is struggling with his emotions. You help him. You provide condolences to that person.
You said to that person, everything will be okay.
But when it comes to you. Why you are searching for another person.
When you have the capacity ppl to make everything better.
Just like you help that person in the same way you can help yourself.
Then why are we so lazy to do those things for ourselves? You know it better. So you will answer this question to yourself in my opinion. Because it belongs to you.
Think for yourself. What is stopping you from helping yourself? I guess nothing.
So please help others and yourself as well.
Keep believe in yourself-
Having faith in yourself is power. If you are one of those people who never lose their self-belief. Sounds good, You are on the way to success.
I saw and read many interviews of successful people. There one thing was common that is self-belief.
Having no belief in ourselves is the first step to Your defeat. No one wants to be a subject of failure. Right?
We all want a successful life. If you are dreaming about a successful life. you have to take an initiative towards it.
Because without actions dreams will always remain dreams.
And when the time will pass. You will get only regrets. That's why I am saying.
Realize the power of belief. Keep it within your heart and brain.
Chase your passion. Chase your dreams. Enjoy life.
Give respect to yourself-
Give yourself enough respect. Provide value in yourself. two different people can have different feelings and opinions for us. We are one soul then why opinions are different.
Some of them shower us with their love. On the other side, some of them think bad about us.
Sometimes it depends on our behavior on the basis people treat us. and most of the time it is on their power of thinking. Their thinking.
In some events of life, we do a lot of things for one individual. And thinks that person will give us the same love and respect.
If that person didn't give us that same behavior. We get hurt and disappointed. It is very normal. Then what do we do?
Some try to realize our value. But some don't mind and move on. If you are the first kind of person, then let me tell you.
You are wasting your precious time nothing else. They will never understand if you try to realize Your value. They will never appreciate what you did for them.
So please don't bother yourself. Leave that habit. Let them realize themselves. When the right time comes they recognize your value and good deeds.
You are doing good behavior. You are a beautiful soul. Respect yourself. Value yourself. Appreciate yourself.
When you give enough respect to yourself. Others will respect you. Most importantly you will not be sad if any other person doesn't give you the respect that you deserve. Because you are giving respect to yourself.
Forgive yourself-
You are very familiar with this word. Many times you saw and read this word in various places.
People say it's hard to forget to get over a few things. But I am saying it's easy. Not in the beginning but yeah in the middle.
It's also important if you want peace of mind. Because in some events of life. We faced a few tearful experiences. And those visuals always hurt our hearts.
That decreases our peace of mind. I know it's a personal choice to forgive someone or not. But if your mental peace gets hurt.
Then do forgive. Nourish your soul with nutrients. Your soul will get all capacity to forgive and forget as well.
Don't observe criticism deeply-
In my humble opinion. There is a short difference between criticizing someone and knowing them about their mistakes.
You have to make a clear understanding of it. Whenever people come and criticize us. They have negative energy with them.
And that energy flows towards us. On the other hand, whenever someone introduces us to our mistakes.
They don't throw negative energy on us. But you know. We have to take both of them with open hands with one condition.
It's important to grow. When we are pursuing our goals or we are just doing something. We made mistakes. It's very common. It's a part of our journey.
We have to fix all those missteps to continue to grow. Either we can observe these missteps to ourselves or someone else will tell us.
When someone else criticizes you. Their criticism can seem unbearable to you. Let them do their work.
You have to focus on your work. Now a question can arise in your brain like what is your work at that time?
Making silence and hearing them all the time? My answer is No. You don't have to do this. You have to add one more ingredient to your recipe and then You can serve.
Yes, you will listen to them carefully. But you are not allowed to observe their energy of criticism. Don't feel unworthy.
Don't let others over you-
Kindness is an act that must be Appreciated. We have to be like that. But don't let the people over you. Don't let them define you.
You know what you are. Don't let others make yourself down.
You are the driver of your life. Drive it in your ways. Don't let others misguide you.
People around you are good and bad as well. Observe their actions. Choose what is best for yourself. Do what is best for you.
The wrong company will never take you in the right direction. So you have to choose wisely. People around you take part in your journey.
Set goals and work for them-
Make an effective action plan. Make yourself out of your comfort zone. Say no to everything which didn't complement your immediate goals.
Leave that company that pulls you back in achieving your goals.
35-40% of people make a to-do list and never follow it. Some of them follow that list only for a few days.
After that, they lost their Concentration and gave up at all.
If you are doing such kinda stuff. please do-follow.
Big things demand a big price. If you want to get something bigger you have to pay bigger attention to it.
Goals demand long time investment and never give up attitude.
Also, read 10 sizzling ways to make everyday count
Schedule your life-
Scheduling a day is the cherry on the cake. If you know how to schedule your day and how to go with it. You are your star.
Day by day build a routine. Strength by strength makes you an idol person.
Take the first step towards Organised life.
Give it a try. Starts in the morning. And at the end of the day, you will feel satisfied with your whole day.
If you did what you think to do. Your best morning routine will make your day. Create your custom routine to proceed with your daily schedule. Value time.
There is no way to get it back if it's gone.
Scheduled life will bring better outcomes than a scattered life.
Doing things for yourself is an art. Be an artist. Show your love and compassion to yourself as well. You also need your care. you also need your love. Be kind to yourself.
I hope these ways that are written above will help you. Try it once. They are proven ways. One day you will surely see the change in yourself.
Showing kindness and compassion to yourself is not a selfish act. It's your right. You have to nourish your soul. Be kind to yourself.
Hope you will do.
All the best.
Also, read - how to get happiness and peace together in life
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