Why we need Less judgmental society

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WE NEED LESS JUDGEMENTAL SOCIETY

Judgement and non judgement or less judgemental. We are very familiar about these words. But the concern is this how much we understand? Being a Less judgemental is so important in today's life. 

I talked with people, and they said they didn't like when someone judged them without knowing them, or without knowing their situation. It feels bad. Obviously it will. it's very obvious when somebody passes judgement on you and if they placed their judgement in a wrong way, we might get angry or disappointed. 

People have a habit of passing their judgment quickly. It's good if you have excellence in analyzing the situation But it's not important to pass your judgement every time or everyplace. 

We have to understand where our judgment is needed or where not. We have to be choosy in this way. 

LESS JUDGEMENTAL SOCIETY 

Can I imagine a society being less judgemental? What makes it less judgemental? 

We humans made society. Our proper collectiveness makes an idol society. Charity begins at home. If we want to see a difference in our vicinity, first we have to change ourselves. 

If we become overly judgemental it would be difficult for you to accept the things as they are. 

One of the most basic things that everyone should keep in mind, no one is perfect. So please don't ask for perfection every time. 

Everyone makes mistakes, and if you continually taunt them on their mistakes, they will not learn from them, they will become depressed and dejected.

People need kindness, love and help. Help them to grow faster.

accept the people as they are, don't ask them to become like someone else. 

When we place these things in our society then our society. 

Dear you be less judgemental-

Be less judgemental, it's a need of mankind. Everyone's life works differently. We don't have the same life and support system. I heard about those days. 

Every second person is having a fear of being judged. They are not saying what they really feel. They hesitate to express themselves.

I observed that fear of being judged takes too much space inside our brain. 

It hits psychologically. 

Not expressing ourselves is the biggest setback of humankind. Sometimes people do not express themselves even in front of their best friend or their family members. 

They think maybe this person will judge me in that possible way or maybe that person can take my words in the wrong way. 

And when you do not express yourself once, you will do it again and again. Because fear of being judged was always inside you. Then sooner or later it becomes a habit. And when your act becomes your habit they directly calm down your emotional system. 

This kind of problem occurs When we don't have charity of thoughts we usually suffer from those complications. 

Being less judgemental is the need. Try to be one who doesn't judge things quickly. Take your time. Give analysis to the situation then you can come into conclusion. 

How can you be less judgemental-

Yes! Anyone can be less judgemental. You have to adopt some maturity. You have to adopt more acceptance. 

How to less judgemental-

How we see things and how we see it all depends upon our point of view. 

Stuff happens, we make Judgements about things. It all depends on how we think about the things. If something bad happens we usually get upset, sad, depressed. And when something good happens we become happy, jovial, delighted. 

All these emotions are the product of the judgements we make. Sometimes it's good sometimes it's not. 

If we have some control over our quick reaction and our point of view. We can control our habit of judgement. 

How to be less judgemental of yourself- 

Well if you ask me, are people judgemental about themselves? I will say yes. When I talk with people, they complain about others. Like another person is much efficient than them, another person is richer than them, another person doing well in their respective fields better than them. 

When people think in this way, they Completely harsh on themselves. They think they are not good at any work. 

It's really bad. We should not judge ourselves like this. We have to believe in our strength. We should be more compassionate towards ourselves. 

The Worst part is we humans are also very judgemental in relationships too. Some people think that they have all rights reserved for their partner. And that kind of thinking made them think, everything should be according to their choice. 

They think they are in love, and it's their right. But morally it's not true that no one has any right to control someone else's life. 

They think they are doing the right things just because they are in love, but in reality they are running their own love life with their own hands.

When we involve judging habit in our relationships. 

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How to be less judgemental in a relationship-

Relationship, being in love with another person. Daydreaming about them. When you get into a relationship everything seems so beautiful. I will not be wrong if I say every feeling which directly or indirectly connects with a relationship is beautiful. 

Trust is the firm foundation of any relationship. Where trust becomes weak, relationships become problematic.

Trust is fragile, once it is broken you can't mend it like before. And if anyhow you mend it even then things are not like before. 

Those scars will remain the same as it is, till the end. 

Less judgement more compassion-

What we can do for others? Just give them a small favour. Be gentle, kind and compassionate to them. When you judge less at the same time you become more  compassionate. 

Everyone you meet in your life is fighting a hard battle; sometimes we don't know how much that person is weaker or broken inside. We can only judge people when we go through from their situation. First we have to walk in their show then we have to come to a conclusion. 

When you become compassionate to others, you actually offer good care to them. 

Words are more to offer, I hope you understand the conclusion. The concept of judgement, non-judgement and less judgemental rely on our point of view. Our perspective makes things easy for us and similarly it can make things worse for us. Choose that treatment that you want from others. If some other person judges you, I guess you will not like it, so why are you judging on every second thing. Less judgemental is good for others and also good for you.

Try to be one. 

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Dear readers I hope one day you will find your purpose of being a less judgemental.  All the best. 

Lots of love

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